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Sekou Bangoura Jr. is just 14 but he's already in the national
Sekou is one of the players mybesttennis.com support. Sekou is using the CD's with great success for the last 3 years. Sekou is accomplished at not only tennis, but golf, chess and piano.Sekou Bangoura is 2006 # 2 USTA B14
Sekou is one of the players mybesttennis.com support. Sekou is using the CD's with great success for the last 3 years. Sekou is accomplished at not only tennis, but golf, chess and piano.Sekou Bangoura is 2006 # 2 USTA B14
..we have received the CD and we listened to it. It was very nice and we found it quite helpful. I would like to order the other 8 CD's..." Ali Eslami. Jasmine, Jade and Maryam are very talented and smart junior players. They purchased the complete program 2003- - Click here to see Jasmin, Jade and Maryam's website - Click here to watch them on the Tyra Banks TV show with Venus Williams
"Your CD's make me feel stronger. I hit the ball better and with more control now. I have been in 4 finals, won my first professional tournament and my ranking is shooting up (from 240 to 160 in 4 months). I'm very exited about my tennis." Catalina, WTA TOUR
I ordered your series of CD's back in Octo.. for my 9yr old daughter Melanie Lewis. While driving back to Michigan from our Christmas vacation in south Florida we stopped for lunch in Bradenton. On impulse we elected to tour Bollettieri Tennis Academy. Not only did we get a tour but a half hour private video tapped lesson with Nick Bollettieri!!! Melanie did very well and stayed calm and focused even though we were all nervous. Her ability to concentrate is a direct result of us listening to your CD's at night before bed. That day 1-2-04, was one of our best experiences thus far. Thank-you from the Lewis family
"Since my brother (6yrs.) and I (9yrs) listen to your CD's every night, we play much better tennis. I reached the final round of the last 16 Boys 12 Singles at the 2002 Eddie Herr International and my brother won the Boys 10 tournament at the Nick Bollettieri tennis academy in Florida." Sergio Geminiani 
"I have been playing tennis for 10 years. I am 15 years old now and I've slumped to the worst ranking and form EVER. I am losing to players who, a couple of years ago, I would have easily beat. Now they are beating me. I lose in the first and second rounds of every tournament, when not to long ago I was winning almost every tournament. I feel that I have no confidence at all and that my attitude has changed dramatically. I cannot explain what has happened to my tennis with words. I came across your site and my dad ordered all your CD's and I started listening every single day. I always believed that hard training, sweat and tears would make me a winner. Now I realize that there is so much more to preparation for my best tennis performance, and that I have the potential to achieve so much more. Your D0 IT YOURSELF program for peak performance gives me the tools to achieve my optimum performance in every situation on the tennis court. OH! I can't possibly describe how happy I am. It feels sooooo good to start winning again." Thanks Demiteri, Florida 
"In my opinionthe most advanced, most effective and most complete program ever developed for tennis." Phil Whitesell, men's head coach at the College of Charleston, SC. Winner of 3 NCAA championships, worked with Brenda-McCarthy (top ten player of the world and also coached Meredith McGrath, semi-finals at Wimbledon.
"Outstanding.It's so much more effective than all the books and videos out there. The CD's are short and to the point. I carry the CD's in my tennis bag and listen to the one I need when I need it. I listen to CD #21 when I have problems with my 1st serve. I listen to #8 when I have problems with closing out my matches. I listen to #1 to motivate and energize myself before my matches. It's like magic. I don't get angry or nervous any more. Every time I listen to the tapes I hit the ball harder, move faster and I concentrate on playing the big points and the key games with more confidence and determination. The funny thing is: Since I stopped thinking about winning, Winning just becomes easy and fun." Salvador W. (21), Mexico
Thank you so much for speaking at our conference at the Intl. Tennis Hall of Fame in Newport, Rhode Island. I received many positive comments about your talk. Diane Sullivan, USPTA Education Chairperson USBTA Convention.
"After meeting you at the German Open a year ago I ordered some of your CD's and I'm happy to tell that your mental toughness program is really excellent idea. As you know I was myself a good junior player. I went to Bollettieri for 9 month and played the satellite and futures tour. Now I'm coaching about 6 talented juniors. I have read many books and attend many workshops about mental toughness and I believe listening to a cd shortly before the match is more effective than reading books or watching videos. Maximilian Mayer, Frankfurt
"Since my daughter (11) started using the Mental Toughness CD's, she is more excited about her tennis. Four months ago, she would get angry when she was not playing well and would hit balls with no sense of fun. Now, I let her listen to your CD's on the way to the tennis courts. When we arrive she is already mentally warmed up and ready to play with greater determination and winning desire -- even when she is just playing for fun." King and daughter Simone
" I always listen to my favorite CD's before the match. I feel confident to take control of the ball and play an awesome game from the beginning to the end. I feel no pressure and I never get nervous or angry anymore. I almost forgot to tell you that I won the BOLLETTIERI Jr. CHAMPIONSHIP, Lorenzo Di Stefano 11 years old, Venezuela
I have had great success in using your program to prepare my players mentally for their matches. This has lead my players to develop the mental skill required to keep their eyes on the ball, their mind on the game and focus on the process, not the outcome." Eduardo M., Argentina 
"I have learned to recognize and take control of the negative emotions that kept me from playing my best tennis. I'm no longer losing the "easy" matches that I should be winning. Karin S. League player"I was always nervous before games. Since I started listening to your CD's before my matches it's much easier for me to stay relaxed and just focus on the moment. I won the national championship in Portugal, qualified in Egypt and reached the semifinals in Brazil." Helga (18)
"It was heart breaking for me as a mother to see my son getting angry on the court and losing matches he should easily wins. His coach used to talk to him before his matches BUT once the game started my son seemed to lose his concentration and end up playing with out any fun or motivation. Now since he's been listening to your CD's before his matches, he steps on the court not only feeling positive and ready to play but also willing to do what it takes to win." Selvia Bergmann, Austria
"My daughter (10) brings all your CD's along in her tennis bag. On the way to a tournament, she often chooses one cd and she will sit in the back of the car and sometimes listen to the same CD 3 or 4 times. She is playing much better and she is WINNING. Her coach is very impressed with her performance. Thank you so much." Maria Stock, CA
"Hi Mr. Refay,
I would like to tell you how well your CD's are working on the "inner mind" of my son Anthony who is just 8 years old. As I told you before, he falls asleep with "you" every night. You are his bedtime story and the soothing voice is doing wonders. I deeply believe that ingraining the mental strengths NOW when he is young and still OPEN minded will benefit him more than when he is in his teens and loaded with all kinds of perceived feelings and knowledge - right or wrong. By the teen years he will know every word inside out like mantras and the information will be there when he needs it." Thanks, Anthony's Mom
I would like to tell you how well your CD's are working on the "inner mind" of my son Anthony who is just 8 years old. As I told you before, he falls asleep with "you" every night. You are his bedtime story and the soothing voice is doing wonders. I deeply believe that ingraining the mental strengths NOW when he is young and still OPEN minded will benefit him more than when he is in his teens and loaded with all kinds of perceived feelings and knowledge - right or wrong. By the teen years he will know every word inside out like mantras and the information will be there when he needs it." Thanks, Anthony's Mom
"Your CD's make me feel absolutely confident. I can keep my eyes fixed on the ball, my timing is better, and I hit the ball with more power and control than ever before." Mike Peterson (14)
How to destroy your opponent's game plan right from the start!
No matter how good your opponent is, if you can put him under pressure right from the start, keep him from developing any rhythm or building any confidence, you can make it much easier for yourself to control the ball, the opponent and the match.
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2. The Perfect 1st Serve!Half of all the points that you will play in a match will begin with your serve. No one stroke can offer you as much success overnight as your 1st serve can. Learn how to use your 1st serve as a weapon by focusing your on hitting powerful & effective 1st serves when you need them most. This will give you the confidence to establish your dominance and win more points with less effort just like Roger Federer, Maria Sharapova, Andy Roddick and all the other great players. |
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3. Thriving on Pressure!Learn how to use pressure to your advantage by keeping the pressure off yourself and shifting it on to your opponent. Train your mind to feel free in pressure situations, hit your best shots and play your best game no matter what the score. |
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4. The Perfect Returns!Consistent and aggressive returns are what separate great players like Roger Federer and Maria Sharapova from the rest of the pack. An aggressive return of serve will give you instant control of the point, keep your opponent from feeling confident with his serve and makes it much easier to get the break. |
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5. Beat the "Better Player"! Nothing will help your game improve faster than beating the "better player" The most determined player on the court is the usual winner. Learn how focus your mind and motivate yourself with a stronger will and desire for victory. You can beat better Players by hitting effective shots that produce consistent results and let you gain the psychological advantage in the match. |
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6. Control Your Emotions!Many talented players can't play the tennis they are capable of only because they get nervous and start hitting the ball too short or missing easy shots. Anxiety and frustration tighten the muscles in your body and hinder your play. Learn to keep your mind sharp and your body relaxed for better ball control and longer and smoother strokes. Controlling your emotions will make you a much better player overnight. |
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7. Be Your Own Motivator!Don't let yourself become your own toughest opponent by thinking negatively, talking yourself down or destroying your own game! Nothing can help your tennis more than better attitude. By improving your attitude you will be able to beat players and win matches you never thought possible. |
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8. Make Your Opponent Work Harder!Pushers are usually not great players. The pusher often tries to make you change your strategy by hitting every ball without any power just back to you and wait for you to miss, get angry, lose your confidence or motivation and give it to him or her. Train your mind to have more patience and focus on playing your best game with discipline and determination. Learn to stick to your game plan and do not let the pusher make you beat yourself. |
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9. Stay on the Top! Many good players lose matches you could or should easily win just because they relax too early and let the opponent get back in the match. Learn how to stay focused, keep the pressure on and play tough to finish off the opponent, close out the match and win with less effort. |
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10. Have an Effective 2nd Serve! The game's most important stroke is the 2nd serve. The 2nd serve is a complex stroke that requires a unity of body movements and a focused mind to execute perfectly. Learn to hit your 2nd serve with more power and spin to win more easy points with your 2nd serve, and put your opponent under constant pressure. |
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H. Refay has helped many young athletes and talented tennis players through his workshops and his best-selling "Do-It-Yourself Mental Toughness" programs.
He holds a master's degree in Psychology. He is one of the best mental toughness trainers in the world with more than 86 publications and over a million copies sold.
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